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#IWSG March 2022- Writing the hard parts.

Created and hosted by the Ninja himself, Alex J. Cavanaugh, the Insecure Writers Support Group posts the 1st Wednesday of every month. Click here to learn more or sign up.

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Optional Monthly Question: Have you ever been conflicted about writing a story or adding a scene to a story? How did you decide to write it or not?

I write a lot of stories I have no intention to share with the world. Usually, if it’s something I’m concerned about sharing, I write it, edit it, rewrite it, and then polish it before deciding what to do. I’ve written some dark pieces that I am in no way ashamed or embarrassed about but recognize that my reason for writing them may not meet the expectations of those who might read it. I may write something contrary to my own values and beliefs because it’s part of how I process and deal, but I wouldn’t put that out in the world for people to misinterpret. Even when I have been clear about my intentions and my words with others, it hasn’t stopped them from projecting their own thoughts and feelings onto my work. But that’s part of the risk a writer takes when they share their words.

So, while I don’t shy away from writing hard things, I know better than to share everything I write. Even within the writer and blogger community, it’s not as safe as one might think to share. Writers and bloggers, especially the IWSG, can be very supportive, but some writers and bloggers can also be the harshest critics, often forgetting what it’s like to be on the receiving end of negativity if they’ve been dishing it out for too long.

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IWSG BOOK CLUB ON GOODREADS

Member Spotlights

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The books we’ve chosen to spotlight in the month of March are Psycho Hose Beast From Outer Space by C.D. Gallant-King and Turn The Light On by Pat Garcia. Please check these out and consider giving one or both of these a read this month. If you’re not up for reading them, no worries, you can still help spread some love for these publications and or participate in the book club activities.

 

Feel free to share this image on social media to help spread the word.

My co-mods and I have done a lot of research into the books written by IWSG members to help facilitate the current direction the book club is taking. In the process, I’ve learned about how readers find and don’t find books by our members. So, I’ve put together some, hopefully, helpful tips I like to call…

Ways to Make Your Book(s) “Findable”

…and increase their chances to be featured and discovered.

7) Aside from making your books findable, don’t miss an opportunity to develop your audience and connect with new readers. If you have a blog, use your About page to let readers know why they should follow your blog and or be interested in your books.

If you do not publish your work and or don’t plan to publish your work, let readers know. I searched for many members’ books and or publications before realizing that they hadn’t been published because it wasn’t clearly stated somewhere. The bloggers who did let me know that they were unpublished and planned to stay that way or were querying stories stuck with me. I can’t remember the ones who never clearly expressed it one way or the other. You don’t have to be planning publication to maintain a blog. If you have good content, readers will read it.

If you only have a website, make sure it’s up to date with current information. While some people are shy about posting images, it’s important to not be misleading. If you don’t like your headshot, use an avatar, a logo, or something else that represents you consistently. Posting a picture of you at age 21 and you are now 50 could be problematic in a world with social media trolls.

Reminder: Here’s our spotlight schedule.

IWSG blog list 1-50 = Feb, Jun, Oct
IWSG blog list 51-100 = Mar, Jul, Nov
IWSG blog list 101+ = Jan, May, Sep (IWSG Anthologies)
IWSG Registry = Apr, Aug, Dec

In April we were going to feature books from authors on the Registry (for Facebook members), but there has been no interest. So, we will pick books at random from the IWSG blogging list. We will return to our regular schedule in April and revisit the Registry in August. Remember, if you are not currently on the IWSG blog hop list and don’t plan to join, the registry is the only way for your books to have a chance to be spotlighted by the book club. If you are on the blog hop list, please don’t join the registry. We want to be fair and give everyone an opportunity to be featured, which means some of us will have to wait for our turns, including me (the book club admin) and the co-mods.

Please click the hyperlink to fill out the form to be added to the IWSG Book Club Spotlight Registry, and please help us spread the word.

Now, on to the personal updates.

I’ve been busy. I continue to make slow progress on my current WIPs with the support of my Patreon community. I had a good reading month that was also kind of weird in that I didn’t finish reading a book and that’s not normal for me. I’ve also continued to do some beta reading for other authors so I think my personal reading will be taking a backseat for a month or so. Luckily, one of the book club reads is a short story.

I launched a new interview show on my YouTube channel that I’m so excited about. I’m really embracing this new role of reading advocate and just want to do my part to help spread the word about how great books and authors are. I’m also freaking out that I get to interview one of my favorite authors on the show. I couldn’t believe it when she said yes. I took a chance and reached out and I’m so glad I did. Here’s a link to catch the next episode this Friday, March 4, 2022 at 6:30 pm EST. Episode one is featured below.

If you’re interested in being featured: check out this link.

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How do you decide whether to write hard topics?

Are you on YouTube?

It may take some time, but I promise, I will eventually stop by your blog. My response time has gotten slower but I’m still making my rounds.

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After hanging out with Alex, be sure to stop by and visit this month’s co-hosts:
Janet Alcorn,
Pat Garcia,
Natalie Aguirre, and
Shannon Lawrence!

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Click here to visit other IWSG blogs and sites to receive and share more inspiration and support. (This month, I’m #31).

Thank you for taking the time to read this post. If you like it let me know and share it with others. See you next time, Toi Thomas. #thetoiboxofwords #blacklivesmatter

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#iwsgbookclub Dec. 2021 Poll & What I #read in Nov.

Please join the IWSG Book Club today on Goodreads for a short general poll. Aside from spotlighting two IWSG member books each month, we also want to engage in bookish whimsy and encourage others to have a healthy reading lifestyle. You don’t have to be reading or have read the 2 current featured books to be able to participate in this poll, so please, join in the festivities. Click the image below to see our fun poll. This month the topic is about TBR lists.

Dec. ’21 General Poll

In November 2021, 1 superhero preview graphic novel, 1 very short story (a western- IWSG), 1 YA mystery (second chance tale), 1 paranormal comedy, 1 time-travel novella (IWSG), 1 middle-grade fantasy adventure, and 1 romantic suspense. Check it out.

2021 Reading Challenge

2021 Reading Challenge
Toi has
read 48 books toward
her goal of
50 books.
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Below you’ll find my star ratings and review blurbs for each title I completed in the indicated month. If you have not signed up for my newsletter, please consider doing so. That’s where I post my thorough book reviews (and sometimes TV and movie stuff) as well as talk about my love of reading while offering tips for having a healthy reading lifestyle. You can also click the Goodreads links to see the thorough reviews. At the bottom of this post, you’ll also be able to watch a video of my monthly reviews, if that’s more your style.

This post contains affiliate links. If you click through to make a purchase, I may make a small commission at no additional cost to you. Any amount I make goes towards my dream to host a book fair in Hampton Roads (Coastal), VA. Please see my About page for more details. Thank you for your support.

 

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5.0 – Great spin-off and series starter.

 

Goodreads | Amazon

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5.0 – Good preview to the full book.

 

Goodreads | Amazon

3.0 – I wanted more.

 

Goodreads | Amazon

4.0 – Dreamy man, nice small town.

 

Goodreads | Amazon

5.0 – Love it. Need to say more later.

 

Goodreads | Amazon

3.0 – Already got the next book.

 

Goodreads | Amazon

4.0 – Good second chance tale.

 

Goodreads | Amazon

You can watch my update video here.

Click below to watch my review video.

So, did you read any good books in Nov. or did you try either of the IWSG Book Club Books?

What did you think of the ones I read?

Any recommendations?

Thank you for taking the time to read this post. If you like it let me know and share it with others. See you next time, Toi Thomas. #thetoiboxofwords #blacklivesmatter

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#iwsgbookclub Nov. 2021 Micro Discussions

Happy Thanksgiving to our U.S. readers and friends.

Here’s an interesting article by Chrys Fey if you are open to alternative ways to appreciate this time of year.

Please join the IWSG Book Club today on Goodreads for two short discussions about the two books we featured in the month of November. There’s still five days left in this month so there’s no rush. We are hosting 3 short questions for each book we featured and encourage you to share your reviews and or thoughts. Discussions will remain open indefinitely, so stop by anytime, even if you haven’t read the book(s).

This post contains affiliate links. If you click through to make a purchase, I may make a small commission at no additional cost to you. Any amount I make goes towards my dream to host a book fair in Hampton Roads, VA. Please see my About page for more details. Thank you for your support.

Lyon’s Legacy: Catalyst Chronicles, Book One by Sandra Ulbrich Almazan. Please click the image below to join the short discussion.

Find it on Amazon.

Broken Angel by Sylvia Ney. Please click the image below to join the short discussion.

Find it on Amazon.

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Thank you for taking the time to read this post. If you like it let me know and share it with others. See you next time, Toi Thomas. #thetoiboxofwords #blacklivesmatter