You ever have moments in your life where no matter what you do, you keep coming up short? Well, that’s me right now. Thus, my late post. Just got back from a much-needed rest and visiting family, but there’s no time to reflect on it. There’s just too much to do.
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Optional Monthly Question: What would make you quit writing?
I don’t think I will ever quit writing, but I could quit trying to publish my writing. Right now, I’m not actively trying to publish anything, but only because I’m waiting until I feel I have something worth publishing. For me, it’s not about quitting, it’s about whether or not I want to keep doing it.
Quitting isn’t what it used to be. Societal standards have overwhelmed so many people that it’s gotten to the point where very few feel obligated to stick with something that doesn’t bring them joy anymore and I, for one, am glad. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with someone saying, “I’ve had enough.” That’s called moving on. It’s not the same mentality as someone who never had a passion for something and then quit because it didn’t make them a lot of money. That’s what quitting is.
Sometimes I want to take time off, knowing how quickly people forget you and write you off if you’re not constantly putting yourself out there, and it used to cause me to stick around. Fortunately, I’ve reached a point where I don’t care anymore. If people write me off or forget about me, well, so be it. Sometimes I just need time off. When I return to writing, blogging, vlogging, or whatever it is I’ve taken time off from, I’m doing it for me. I’m just as happy with a crowd of one as I am with a crowd of 100.
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IWSG BOOK CLUB ON GOODREADS
I’m currently struggling to complete any of the books I’ve started including our book club reads and not because they aren’t good reads. I’m feeling overwhelmed in many areas of my life and unfortunately, my read count and word count are suffering. Hopefully though, since I’m seeking help and support, I’ll be able to get back on track soon.
Now, on to the personal updates.
Discovered a new medical condition that’s been making my life difficult to navigate. Was in a car accident (I’m okay). My dog is very sick. The woes of technological issues, and the usual stuff we know as life have made the last month and a half very difficult, but I’m trying to keep it moving. I hardly made it around to visit many blogs last month, but I hope to be able to visit more this month.
I posted a few videos to my YouTube channel just to feel like I have a little control of what’s going on around me. Despite the minor hardships I’m currently dealing with (in comparison to what other people are going through) I am still very blessed.
Here are a few videos you can check out if you’re up for it.
Have U Seen This? #7 6/21 | 6-21 Mid Year Haul | and
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Ever thought about quitting?
Whatever you’re going through, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
It may take some time, but I promise, I will eventually stop by your blog.
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After hanging out with Alex, be sure to stop by and visit this month’s co-hosts:
Pat Garcia,
Victoria Marie Lees,
Chemist Ken, and
Louise – Fundy Blue!
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