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#IWSG October 2019: To Read or Not to Read?

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Created and hosted by the Ninja himself, Alex J. Cavanaugh, the Insecure Writers Support Group posts the 1st Wednesday of every month. Click the image to learn more or sign up.

Optional Monthly Question: It’s been said that the benefits of becoming a writer who does not read is that all your ideas are new and original. Everything you do is an extension of yourself, instead of a mixture of you and another author. On the other hand, how can you expect other people to want your writing, if you don’t enjoy reading? What are your thoughts?

Writers who don’t read make me feel uncomfortable. I don’t expect most writers to read as much as I do, but I do expect them to read somewhat regularly. Like the question says, why should other people read a writer’s work when that writer doesn’t read anyone else’s work. I don’t think it’s right to expect people to read and or buy your books if you aren’t yourself a consumer of books.

I always appreciate an opportunity to read an ARC, but I still buy books from other authors as well. (At least, I post my ARC reviews right away, while my leisure reads usually come with leisurely posted reviews.) I’ve seen writers online bragging about how they only read books sent to them for review purposes or they don’t read at all because they don’t have the time. I’m not cool with that.

I know I make reading a priority in my life, but that has nothing to do with me as a writer. If I wasn’t already an avid reader, I’d still make a point to read at least one book a month. For some writers, reading one book every quarter is all they can muster because they are so focused on their writing, and I think that’s great. It’s better than saying, I won’t make time to read but I expect other people to read what I’ve written.

So, those are my thoughts. Probably not popular, but it is what it is.

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IWSG Book Club News
September 25, 2019, was discussion day for Forest for the Trees: An Editor’s Advice by Betsy Lerner. I haven’t made it over there yet, but I will. I must admit, I had trouble reading this one, but Part 2 of the book was better for me than Part 1.

Our October/November fiction book, voted on by our members, is The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society. Discussion Fun Day will be November 20th.

In anticipation of this being the chosen title, I read the book and watched the Netflix movie. Loved them both. Will say more at discussion time.

WEP-IWSG

The October challenge has been officially announced. Posting is the 16th -18th. I’ve already finished my story but may need to polish it a bit. I’m not in love with the story I’ve written but I feel it’s the story I need to tell right now. I’m open to other ideas coming along and playing out before submission day, so I guess we’ll see what I post when I post.

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Now, on to the personal updates.

Is anyone in the U.S. having a real Fall experience right now. It’s October and I’m still waiting to wear all my scarves and sweaters. I’m ready for cool temperatures and rainbow leaves. Plus, I really don’t want to be sweating on my birthday. I’m so ready for Fall.

I’m currently in the process of rewriting four books. Why, you ask? Apparently, I’m a crazy person who lets her characters dictate her life and right now they are all demanding makeovers.

OMG! I don’t care if no one says that anymore. I got to meet L. Diane Wolfe at the Hampton Roads Writer’s Conference last month and have no shame in admitting that I was a total fangirl. The whole writing conference was a wonderful experience, but meeting Diane just made it even more special.

This writer’s conference also lit a fire in me to get back out into my local community to network and share my writing and speaking skills. I have a few events lined up and feel good about sharing my love of books and reading. If I sell books along the way, great. If not, at least I got to have the experience.

Speaking of networking, are there any IWSG members living in or near Hampton Roads (Tidewater), VA willing to connect and or collaborate?

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So, are you a writer who reads or doesn’t read? Do you think writers should also be readers?

Thanks for stopping by. It may take some time, but I will stop by your blog too.

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After hanging out with Alex, be sure to stop by and visit this month’s co-hosts:
Ronel Janse van Vuuren,
Mary Aalgaard,
Madeline Mora-Summonte, and
Ellen @ The Cynical Sailor!!!

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Click here to visit other IWSG blogs and sites to receive and share more inspiration and support. (This month, I’m #44).

Thank you for taking the time to read this post. If you like it let me know and share it with others. See you next time, Toi Thomas. #thetoiboxofwords

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The Art and Business of Attending Live Events by Toi Thomas at GoIndieNow

See what happens when you’re under the weather, you miss your own guest post. Oops! Please, go check me out over at GoIndieNow! I’m sharing some insights I’ve learned over the years, and from those further along than I am, concerning live events and hope you, at least, find it entertaining.

It didn’t take me long to figure out that I was not the average writer, in more ways than one.

Since I’m here to talk about live events today, I’ll save you the shock and awe (an exaggeration) of listing all the ways in which I’m a little different and simply focus on the topic at hand. I realized that while, like most writers, I have introverted tendencies, my geeky nature has allowed me to overcome many of my social insecurities…
Read More here.

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#IWSG June 2016: Follow Through

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Created and hosted by the Ninja himself, Alex J. Cavanaugh, the Insecure Writers Support Group posts the 1st Wednesday of every month. Click the image to learn more or sign up.

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Thanks for stopping in today. It really means a lot, especially since I’m so insecure at the moment. This is probably one of the few times in my life that my anxiety is completely self-imposed. I haven’t done a good job a following through lately, which is not like me, and I’m afraid it may be too late. Whether there’s still time or not, I’m going to make every effort to finish what I’ve started. If I fail, hopefully I’ll at least learn something from it.

1) I’ve been meaning to start my author interview series again. I have several interested, but I’ve dropped the ball. I will try reaching out to the interested parties this week.

2) I’ve been blindsided in my priorities. I have several WIPs going, as do many writers, but I’ve become a little distracted with the task of attempting to illustrate 5 children’s books I’ve written. It’s all a matter of discipline and time management, but still…

3) I recently tanked on a very rare opportunity. I don’t really want to talk about it because I’m still very disappointed in myself. Part of me feels like if it was truly meant to be, I would have made it happen and another part of me feels like that the opportunity presented itself once, I’m willing to wait however long for it to present itself again. (I’m trying not to beat myself up too much even though I know I messed up.)

4) I’m hoping to finish the 3rd part of my Eternal Curse Series by the end of summer so I can start sending it out to betas (assuming I can find some betas).

5) I’m so looking forward to my summer vacation.

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Have you dropped the ball recently?
Got any illustrating tips?
Any big plans for the summer?

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After hanging out with Alex, be sure to stop by and visit this month’s co-hosts:
Murees Dupe,
Alexia Chamberlynn,
Chemist Ken, and
Heather Gardner!

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Click here to visit other IWSG blogs and sites to receive and share more inspiration and support. (This month, I’m #79).

Thank you for taking the time to read this post. If you like it let me know and share it with others. See you next time, Toi Thomas. #thetoiboxofwords